Over the years my mom has taught me countless things. I’m sure your mom has done the same for you. There are so many lessons and tips it’s hard to remember them all, but some just seem to stick with you. It’s those lessons that really impact your life. This Mother’s Day weekend, I want to share 5 things my mom taught me that will change your life.
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Be Classy
My mom grew up on the east coast. She swore she would never raise her children on the west coast. Well all 6 of us were raised in Southern California!!! Her thinking was that the west coast was far too laid back. So, she was determined to raise her children to be classy.
When we flew on an airplane, we wore one of our nicest outfits. We would wear skirts or pants to school, until we moved somewhere it was too hot not to where shorts! We answered the phone, “Hello, this is Randi.” No one ate there food until the person who made it took the first bite. My mom taught me that little things mold you into a classy person.
Her example rubbed off on me. I prefer to be over dressed than under dressed. I tease that I would wear a dress and heels to grocery shop if it where more common!
Being a classy person means you care about yourself and those around you. Your words and actions elevate yourself and others. There’s a million ways to be classy. Be classy, it will change your life.
More of my favorite classy dresses
Celebrate the everyday
Each day truly is a gift.
My sweet mom taught me that in simple ways.
We ate on nice dishes just because. Sure there were many days we had paper plates with mac and cheese. I remember those special, random days when mom would set the table with nice dishes and we would eat something simple. I felt special. It’s the simples acts that show those you love, they are cherished.
Look for ways to celebrate the everyday in your home. Your life will feel more joyful. Start this weekend. Set a special table for your mom or someone you love. Here are a few shots of our family’s table to celebrate Mother’s Day for inspiration.
My mom also taught me to love ginger jars. So our Mother’s Day tables often showcase ginger jars! Find more of my favorite ginger jars here.
Lidded Ginger Jar | Marbled Temple Jar | Blue White Gold Ginger Jar
Maize Charger | Beaded Dinner Plate | Scalloped Dessert Plate | Stone Napkin | Flower Napkin Ring | Blue Goblets
More Table Sources
The plates and goblets are from one of my favorite companies, Arte Italica. Their dishes make every occasion more special! Whether it’s a big event or a simple dinner at home, a pretty plate makes your meal more fabulous!
Do things for other people
I couldn’t even begin to count how many times I saw my mom walk out our door with dinner, flowers or a small gift to brighten someone’s day. My mom taught me through her actions, not her words.
When I feel overwhelmed or sorry for myself, I try remember my mother’s example. Find someone who needs you and do something for them. Something magical happens, your problems don’t seem so big, your worries fade away and you are lifted from your kind act.
Do things for other people. It will make you a happier person.
If you can use a piece in more than one place in your home, it’s a good buy
This tip has saved me lots of money over the years!
If you find a piece you love for your home, always ask yourself, “Can I find multiple places to use this in my home?” If the answer is no, you should probably leave it where you found it.
My gold, lucite end table is a perfect example of something I used my mom’s tip when purchasing. I knew it would work in many rooms and places in our home. It was a good buy! I have used it in our bedroom, den and family room.
Buy pieces that are versatile, your wallet and husband will thank you!
Gold Lucite End Table | Lattice Ginger Jar | Floral Ginger Jar | Hand Painted Ginger Jar | Faux Cherry Blossoms | Gray Antelope Pillow | Ikat Gray Pillow | Geometric Gray Pillow | Gray Rug | Cream Linen Drapes 
You can have a beautiful home, with children
There were 6 children in my family growing up. We each had jobs to do each day. My parents taught us how to work and how to respect our home. Our house wasn’t perfect, but my parents had a neat and tidy home with nice things laying around.
My mom taught me that if you teach your children to work and be respectful, you an have a home that is beautiful.
I shared a blog post on how to have a beautiful home with children. There are lots of tips and ideas on how to involve everyone in your home.
So those are just a few tips that I learned from my mom. I hope they help you live your life in style. I love you mom! Happy Mother’s Day to all of you!
Randi,
I am old enough to be your mother,maybe even your grandmother. You were raised right. I read a number of blogs,,and you have been blessed and you can tell that you are very thankful for what you have. My daughter is 49 years old and has not had an easy time,but she keeps on going and always finds a way to make things work. I don’t know you,but I can tell you have your head where it should be. Happy Mother’s Day to you and your classy mom.
Oh thank you so much for your sweet comment! Wishing you and your sweet daughter a wonderful Mother’s Day filled with lots of love! xo
Randi, I LOVE this! Every tip is fabulous! Your mother sounds wonderful. Xo Happy Mother’s Day!
Thank you my sweet friend! Wishing you a fabulous day with your sweet kiddos! xo
I’ve akways said that God gave me wonderful children and luckily I didn’t ruin them!! You are the best of the best Randi. This post was the best gift you could ever give me…I think we humans just need to know they we have done some lasting good in the world and you are my living proof of that! You are one classy lady!😘
Love, Mom
I love you mom, I am so so blessed! xo
Beautiful post! Happy Mother’s Day to you!
Thank you Stephanie! Wishing you the same! xo
What a thoughtful, heartfelt, beautiful tribute to your mother. A message like this is a gift any mother would treasure. Happy Mother’s Day to you and your Mom!
Thank you Linda! Wishing you a lovely Mother’s Day! xoxo
Thank you so much for this beautiful post. Miss my mom. She died 45 yrs ago when I was only 28. Everyone remembers her as a classy, beautiful lady
Oh I am so sorry! I do know that a mother’s love will never die, she is with you and always will be. I know you will see her again too. Wishing you a lovely Mother’s Day Vicki! xo
Randi~
You are a class act, my dear and so is your beautiful mother. She is certainly leaving her hand print on your heart and life is so many ways. And the beauty is that you are, I am sure, passing those same things along to your own children. It is these things that pull the heart strings of a family a little tighter.
Have a great day!
Deb 🙂